Neurodiverse Couples Counseling Resources
Books
Neurodiverse Relationships
The Other Half of ADHD by Gina Pera - Understanding the partner's perspective in ADHD relationships
Is This Autism? A Guide for Clinicians and Everyone Else by Donna Henderson, Sarah Wayland, and Jamell White - Understanding autism in adults
Journal of Best Practices by David Finch - A memoir of navigating marriage with Asperger's
What I Mean When I Say I'm Autistic by Annie Kotowicz - Unpacking autism and neurodiversity
ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship by Ari Tuckman - Addressing intimacy in neurodiverse couples
The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD by Melissa Orlov and Nancie Kohlenberger
Communication & Connection
NeuroTribes by Steve Silberman - Understanding neurodiversity more broadly
Divergent Mind by Jenara Nerenberg - Women and neurodivergence
Unmasking Autism by Devon Price - Understanding autistic identity and masking
Apps
Organization & Task Management
Tiimo - Visual daily planner designed for ADHD and autism
Goblin Tools - Helpful tools for executive function challenges
TimeTimer - Visual time management
Structured - Daily planner with time-blocking
Communication Support
Paired - Couples communication and connection app
Lasting - Research-based relationship counseling exercises
Love Nudge - Understanding love languages
Gottman Card Decks - Conversation starters and connection exercises
Wellness & Regulation
Finch - Self-care and habit tracking with gentle accountability
Insight Timer - Meditation and mindfulness
Breathwrk - Breathing exercises for regulation
Podcasts
Neurodiverse Relationships
ADHD reWired with Eric Tivers - Episodes on relationships and ADHD
Uniquely Human: The Podcast - Autism understanding and acceptance
The Neurodiverse Love Podcast - Specifically for neurodiverse couples
Translating ADHD - Understanding ADHD in context
Relationships & Communication
Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel - Relationship therapy sessions
The Marriage Podcast for Smart People - Evidence-based relationship advice
Couples Therapy with Candice Christiansen - Practical relationship tools
Couples Therapy
Sagebrush Counseling offers specialized counseling for neurodiverse couples throughout Texas. Our therapists understand the unique dynamics of neurodiverse relationships and provide affirming, neurodiversity-informed care.
We serve clients in Texas through both in-person and telehealth sessions.
📍 Location: Texas only
🌐 Website: sagebrushcounseling.com
What to Look for in a Neurodiverse-Affirming Therapist:
Training in neurodiversity and neurological differences
Understanding of both neurotypical and neurodivergent communication styles
Strength-based approach rather than deficit-focused
Experience with neurodiverse relationship dynamics
Willingness to accommodate sensory and communication needs
Additional Online Resources
AANE (Asperger/Autism Network) - Support groups and resources
CHADD (Children and Adults with ADHD) - Educational resources and support
Neurodiversity Hub - Articles and community resources
ADDitude Magazine - ADHD-focused articles on relationships
Emergency Resources
If you're in crisis, please contact:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-4357
This resource page is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical or therapeutic advice. Please consult with a qualified mental health professional for personalized guidance.