Infidelity Recovery for Analytical Couples

Most infidelity therapy drowns analytical people in endless emotional processing. You need structured repair with clear phases and measurable progress.

This specialized track addresses:

Immediate safety establishment:
Transparency protocols, boundary agreements, crisis management for the betrayed partner's trauma responses.

Structured understanding:
What happened, when, and why—including how ADHD/autism contributed without removing responsibility.

Neurodivergence factors:

• ADHD impulsivity and novelty-seeking

• Emotional dysregulation seeking external soothing

• Hyperfocus on new connection while neglecting primary relationship

• Autistic literal interpretations of relationship agreements

• Executive dysfunction enabling secretive patterns

Trust rebuilding architecture:
Measurable indicators of progress. How you'll know whether repair is actually occurring vs. performative change.

This is not:

• Excusing behavior because of ADHD/autism

• Quick forgiveness or bypassing trauma

• Avoiding difficult conversations about what happened

Timeline: 20-30 sessions for genuine repair (infidelity recovery cannot be rushed)

Who This Works For

You're a good fit if:

✓ Both partners are analytical, pragmatic, or neurodivergent
✓ You want structured repair with clear phases and measurable outcomes
✓ You respond better to systems and frameworks than open-ended emotional exploration
✓ You're willing to invest in specialized expertise (not looking for cheapest option)
✓ You can handle direct feedback about what needs to change
✓ You're committed to actual change, not just complaining about your partner

This doesn't fit if:

✗ You want someone to validate your complaints and take sides
✗ You're looking for quick fixes or magic solutions
✗ You're unwilling to examine your own contribution to patterns
✗ Either partner is ambivalent about staying in the relationship
✗ You expect neurodivergence to excuse accountability