Am I Neurodivergent? Understanding the Signs

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Many people wonder am I neurodivergent after years of feeling different, struggling with things others find easy, or recognizing patterns in themselves they can't quite name.

Am I Neurodivergent? Understanding the Signs

Wondering am I neurodivergent often emerges when you recognize patterns in yourself that don't match how most people seem to function. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, neurodivergence includes conditions like ADHD, autism, and other differences in how people process information, regulate attention, experience sensory input, and interact socially. Many people spend years not knowing they're neurodivergent, attributing challenges to personal failings rather than neurological differences. This educational quiz and information can help you recognize whether professional assessment might be valuable. However, only qualified professionals can provide formal assessment. This content is for educational awareness only, not diagnostic purposes.

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What Neurodivergence Means

Neurodivergence describes neurological differences in how people process information, regulate attention, experience sensory input, and interact with the world.

Common forms of neurodivergence include ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyscalculia, and other conditions where the nervous system functions differently from what's considered typical. These are not deficits or disorders but differences in how neurological systems work.

Many neurodivergent people don't recognize their neurodivergence until adulthood because they developed coping strategies that masked differences or because they attributed struggles to personal failings rather than neurological factors.

Take the Educational Awareness Quiz

Neurodivergence Awareness Quiz

IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: This quiz is for educational and awareness purposes only. It is NOT a diagnostic tool and cannot determine whether you are neurodivergent. Only qualified healthcare professionals can provide formal assessment. This quiz helps you recognize whether professional evaluation might be valuable. Your results do not constitute medical advice.

1. Do you often feel like your mind is constantly busy with thoughts, ideas, or observations?

2. Do you struggle with tasks that require sustained attention or find yourself hyperfocusing on specific interests?

3. Do you find social interactions exhausting or confusing, even when you enjoy them?

4. Are you sensitive to sensory input like sounds, lights, textures, or smells that others don't seem to notice?

5. Do you have difficulty with executive function tasks like planning, organization, or transitioning between activities?

6. Do you feel like you're masking or camouflaging your natural responses to fit in socially?

7. Do you have intense interests or hobbies that you dive deeply into?

8. Do you struggle with emotional regulation or experience intense emotional responses?

9. Do you prefer predictable routines and feel distressed when plans change unexpectedly?

10. Have you often felt different from others or like you don't quite fit in, even when you can't explain why?

Common Signs of Neurodivergence

Certain patterns appear frequently in neurodivergent people, though experiencing some of these doesn't necessarily mean you're neurodivergent.

You might struggle with tasks others find simple while excelling at things others find difficult. You may have intense interests you pursue deeply. Social interaction might feel like performing or following scripts rather than coming naturally. Sensory experiences that others barely notice might feel overwhelming or unbearable.

Executive function challenges like difficulty starting tasks, managing time, or organizing might persist despite trying countless organizational systems. You might feel exhausted from constantly adapting to environments and expectations that don't match how you naturally function.

Many neurodivergent people describe feeling like they're constantly translating between how they think and how others seem to think.

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Many neurodivergent adults describe recognition as both validating and clarifying, explaining lifelong patterns they attributed to personal failings rather than neurological differences.

Why Self-Recognition Matters

Understanding that you might be neurodivergent provides framework for experiences that previously felt confusing or shameful.

Recognition helps you stop blaming yourself for neurological differences. It allows you to seek appropriate accommodations rather than forcing yourself to function in ways that don't match your neurology. You can connect with communities of people who share similar experiences.

For relationships, understanding neurodivergence provides context for patterns that might otherwise create disconnection. Learning about autism communication in relationships or recognizing neurodivergent libido patterns helps couples develop approaches that work with rather than against neurological differences.

Professional assessment provides formal recognition and opens doors to resources and support. However, self-recognition itself has value even before formal assessment.

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Getting Professional Assessment

If you recognize neurodivergent patterns in yourself, professional assessment can provide clarity and access to support.

Assessment typically involves comprehensive evaluation of developmental history, current functioning, and specific areas like attention, executive function, sensory processing, and social communication. The process varies depending on what type of neurodivergence is being evaluated.

Many adults seeking assessment were missed as children, especially women and people of color who present differently than stereotypical profiles. Professionals experienced in adult assessment understand these nuances.

Therapy can support you whether you pursue formal assessment or not. Understanding how neurodivergence affects your life and relationships doesn't always require formal diagnosis to benefit from specialized support.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common Questions About Neurodivergence

Can you be neurodivergent without being diagnosed?

Yes. Many neurodivergent people recognize their neurodivergence through self-identification before or without formal assessment. Self-identification is valid and valuable. However, formal assessment provides access to specific accommodations and resources. Whether you pursue assessment is a personal choice based on your needs and circumstances.

Why wasn't I identified as neurodivergent as a child?

Many factors lead to missed identification including masking behaviors, compensatory strategies, above-average intelligence, gender biases in assessment criteria, and lack of awareness about how neurodivergence presents. Many adults, particularly women and people of color, weren't identified despite clear signs because they didn't match stereotypical profiles.

What should I do if the quiz suggests I might be neurodivergent?

Remember the quiz is educational only, not diagnostic. If results resonate with your experience, consider professional assessment. Schedule a consultation to discuss options. Research neurodivergence to learn more about your experiences. Connect with neurodivergent communities. Therapy can support you whether or not you pursue formal assessment. Schedule a complimentary consultation to explore next steps.

Is it too late to get assessed as an adult?

No. Adult assessment is increasingly available and valuable. Many people find tremendous relief in understanding their neurodivergence at any age. Assessment in adulthood provides framework for lifelong patterns and access to appropriate support. It's never too late to understand yourself better.

Will knowing I'm neurodivergent change anything?

Understanding your neurodivergence typically provides significant shifts in self-perception, access to accommodations, connection with community, framework for understanding challenges, and validation of experiences. Many people describe recognition as profoundly positive even when it doesn't change external circumstances immediately. The shift in understanding yourself often changes everything.

Can I get support without formal assessment?

Yes. Therapy can address how neurodivergent patterns affect your life whether or not you have formal assessment. Many therapists work with self-identified neurodivergent people. Support for neurodivergent individuals and relationships doesn't always require formal diagnosis. Schedule a complimentary consultation to discuss options.

Neurodivergence Support at Sagebrush Counseling

At Sagebrush Counseling, we provide support for individuals exploring neurodivergence and couples navigating neurodivergent relationship patterns. We understand that recognition often comes in adulthood and that self-identification is valid whether or not formal assessment follows. We provide therapy helping neurodivergent individuals understand and work with their neurological differences, support for couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent, and guidance navigating assessment options.

We provide specialized couples therapy for neurodiverse relationships in Houston, Austin, and Dallas, Texas, as well as Portland, Maine. We serve all of Montana, Texas, and Maine via secure video telehealth. Whether you're in Bozeman, Billings, or anywhere in Montana; Houston, Austin, Dallas, or anywhere in Texas; or Portland, Brunswick, or anywhere in Maine, you can access specialized support from home.

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Get Support for Understanding Neurodivergence

Schedule a complimentary consultation to discuss professional assessment options, therapy for neurodivergent individuals, or support for neurodiverse relationships. We serve Montana, Texas, and Maine via secure video telehealth. Understanding yourself better is always worth it.

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References

  1. National Institute of Mental Health. "Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder." https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder-adhd
  2. National Institute of Mental Health. "Autism Spectrum Disorder." https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/autism-spectrum-disorders-asd
  3. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "ADHD." https://www.cdc.gov/adhd/
  4. American Psychological Association. "Neurodiversity." https://www.apa.org/topics/neurodiversity

This post and quiz are for educational and informational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice or professional assessment. The quiz cannot diagnose neurodivergence. Only qualified healthcare professionals can provide formal assessment. If you're in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or call 911 if you are in immediate danger.

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