My Sensory Intimacy Map

πŸ’ My Sensory Intimacy Map

Understanding & Communicating Your Sensory Needs in Intimacy

Introduction

Your Sensory World is Unique

Everyone has different sensory preferences and boundaries in intimate situations.

This map helps you understand and communicate what feels good, what feels overwhelming, and what you need to feel safe and connected. Your preferences are valid, may change over time, and deserve to be respected.

This is YOUR map - there are no right or wrong answers.

Touch Mapping

My Touch Comfort Zones

Rate comfort level for different types of touch in different areas:

Head/Face/Hair
Neck/Shoulders
Arms/Hands
Chest/Torso
Back
Hips/Lower Body

Sensory Preferences

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Touch Types

Light/feather touch
Firm/deep pressure
Massage/kneading
Scratching/nails
Temperature play
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Sound Preferences

Silence/quiet
Music/background sound
Talking/verbal
Breathing/sighs
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Visual Preferences

Dim lighting
Eye contact
Complete darkness
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Scent & Environment

Natural scents
Candles/incense
Cool temperature

Context & Conditions

When I Feel Most Comfortable

My sensory needs change based on:

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Relaxed
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Stressed
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Tired
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Energized
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Time of Day
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Cycle Phase
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Overstimulated
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Mental State

Boundaries & Safety

My Sensory Boundaries

πŸ’š Green Zone - Always Comfortable

πŸ’› Yellow Zone - Sometimes/Maybe

❀️ Red Zone - Hard Boundaries

Communication Preferences

How I Communicate About Sensory Needs

Sensory Accommodations

Things That Help Me Feel Safe & Present

Growth & Exploration

My Sensory Journey

Partner Communication Guide

Sharing This Map With My Partner

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