Sexual Values Quiz: What Do You Really Want From Intimacy?
A therapeutic tool for couples to explore and discuss intimate values together
Instructions for Couples
- Take separately first: Each partner should complete this quiz individually without discussing answers.
- Be honest: Choose answers that truly reflect your values, not what you think your partner wants to hear.
- No right or wrong answers: Every person has different values, and that's completely normal.
- Compare results: After both complete the quiz, share your top values and use the discussion prompts.
- Focus on understanding: The goal is to understand each other better, not to judge or change each other.
Understanding Sexual Values
Emotional Connection
Feeling deeply bonded, understood, and emotionally close during intimate moments.
Trust & Safety
Feeling completely secure, respected, and free from judgment in intimate situations.
Communication & Expression
Open dialogue about desires, boundaries, and feelings related to intimacy.
Playfulness & Fun
Bringing lightness, humor, and joy into intimate experiences.
Meaningful Connection
Experiencing intimacy as something significant, purposeful, and deeply connecting.
Growth & Exploration
Continuously learning about yourself and your partner through intimate experiences.
Sensory & Physical Pleasure
Focusing on physical sensations, pleasure, and the body's responses.
Freedom & Autonomy
Maintaining personal choice and independence within the intimate relationship.
Intimacy & Vulnerability
Sharing your deepest self and being completely open with your partner.
Adventure & Novelty
Seeking new experiences and keeping intimacy fresh and exciting.
Passion & Intensity
Experiencing strong emotions, desire, and powerful physical connection.
Frequency & Availability
Having intimacy be a regular, consistent part of your relationship.